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Am I Ready to Buy a House?

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PUBLISHED: AUG 6, 2024
LAST UPDATED: AUG 28, 2026
Am I financially ready to buy a house?

Key Takeaways

  • You’re ready to buy a house when you’re debt-free (Baby Step 2) and have a full emergency fund of 3–6 months of expenses saved (Baby Step 3).
  • Save a strong down payment—aim for 20% to skip private mortgage insurance (PMI), or at least 5% as a first-time buyer.
  • Keep your total monthly house payment within 25% of your take-home pay.
  • Get a 15-year fixed-rate conventional mortgage—never a 30-year, FHA or VA loan.
  • Not ready yet? Keep renting while you knock out debt, then stack cash for a down payment.

Buying a house can be a wonderful blessing for your family and a great way to build wealth. But make sure you’re actually ready to buy—otherwise, homeownership becomes a decades-long curse.

 

Quick Answer

You’re ready to buy a house when you’re debt-free, have a full emergency fund of 3–6 months of expenses, save a 20% down payment and keep your mortgage payment to no more than 25% of your take-home pay on a 15-year fixed-rate loan. Do all that and your home builds wealth instead of leaving you house poor.

Phase 1: Is Your Financial Foundation Ready?

Are You Debt-Free?

You’re ready on this front when you have zero consumer debt—no car payments, credit cards or student loans.


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If you try buying a house while you have debt, it’ll be tough to save up a strong down payment since most of your extra money will be going out the door to credit card companies or Sallie Mae. So, before you buy a house, buckle down and knock out your debt as fast as possible using the debt snowball. Once debt’s a distant memory, get busy stockpiling money in an emergency fund. Then your budget will be secure and you can focus on saving up a down payment.

On the flip side, some will say you need debt to earn a good credit score—since that’s the only way to get a mortgage. But that’s a bunch of bull. You can actually buy a house without a credit score. And if you’ve been living a debt-free lifestyle, you probably don’t have one—which is a great thing!To get a mortgage without a credit score, all you have to do is work with a lender that does manual underwriting. That’s when a lender personally digs through your financial history (rent, utilities and income) to see how you manage money, and then approves you for a mortgage . . . instead of relying on a goofy algorithm to predict how you manage debt (a monkey could do that). Sure, having a lender manually underwrite your loan isn’t what’s considered normal these days. What’s “normal” is for lenders to approve buyers for a bigger mortgage than they can afford. Normal is broke. Be weird!

 

Here's a Tip

Keep in mind: No credit isn’t the same as bad credit. Buying a house with bad credit is a terrible idea. If your credit score is lower than the mid-600 range, you’ll only be eligible for crappy, high-interest loans.

Do You Have a Full Emergency Fund?

Having a fully funded emergency fund of 3–6 months of expenses means a surprise bill won’t turn your new house into a crisis. If you buy a house without an emergency fund, you’ll be in big trouble when something inevitably goes wrong—think a leaky roof or a faulty HVAC unit.

 

Homeownership Isn’t Always Cheaper Than Renting

"Want to know why Dave says that broke people shouldn't buy a house? I'm living the reason. In 2022, my wife and I bought our home… At the time, we didn't realize how broke we were. We had about $100,000 in debt from student loans, credit cards, personal loans, and car loans. 2 weeks after we closed on the house, the AC, furnace, and water heater all died… If I could go back to 2022 and stop myself from buying this place, I would!"

—Paul S., THE Ramsey Baby Steps Community

Phase 2: Do You Have the Buying Power?

How Much Down Payment Do You Need?

Aim for 20% down to avoid PMI—insurance that protects the lender, not you. If you’re a first-time home buyer, a smaller down payment—at least 5%—is okay (but you will have to pay for that pesky PMI). A bigger down payment means smaller monthly payments and a smaller loan, overall.

The best way to buy a home is to put 100% down (trust us, it’s possible). But if paying cash for your home isn’t realistic for your timeline and you want to take out a mortgage, then a good down payment is essential.

For a simple plan for how to save up a big down payment fast, download our Saving for a Down Payment Guide.

Do You Really Need a 15-Year Fixed-Rate Loan?

The only type of mortgage you should even consider is a 15-year fixed-rate conventional loan. Going for a 30-year loan may seem like a good way to lower your payments, but it’s also a good way to pay a ton more (like, tens of thousands of dollars) in interest while you stay in debt for an extra decade and a half. You should also stay far away from FHA and VA loans, and all their pesky fees.

If you borrowed $300,000 from a lender as a home mortgage, here’s what it’d look like across two different loan terms according to our Mortgage Payoff Calculator:

Costs

15-Year Fixed (6%)

30-Year Fixed (6.5%)

Monthly payment (principal + interest)

$2,532

$1,896

Total interest paid

~$156,000

~$383,000

Total paid over the loan

~$456,000

~$683,000

The 15-year loan costs about $227,000 less in interest and gets you out of debt 15 years sooner. That’s the difference between a house that builds wealth and one that just lines your lender’s pockets.

When you’re ready, our friends at Churchill Mortgage can walk you through getting preapproved for a 15-year fixed-rate loan.

What’s the 25% Guideline for Affordability?

The 25% guideline means your monthly house payment should never go beyond 25% of your take-home pay. That includes principal, interest, taxes, insurance, PMI and homeowners association (HOA) fees.

Why? When your house payment eats up more than a fourth of your take-home pay, your budget will be way too tight. Tying up that much of your income in a house payment won’t leave you enough money to put toward other important financial goals like saving for retirement. That’s what we call house poor.

So, before you pull the trigger on a new house, add up how much your monthly payment would be and make sure it won’t go past that 25% mark. Our Mortgage Calculator will give you a realistic look at what that number will be.

And don’t forget, your monthly payment is more than just the principal and interest on your loan. More than likely, you’ll also be paying for . . .

  • Property taxes: Local governments raise money through property taxes to fund things like schools, law enforcement, fire departments and (supposedly) fixing potholes.
  • Homeowners insurance: Sure, homeowners insurance adds more dollar signs to your house payment. But paying for coverage will be way less expensive than trying to replace all your stuff out of pocket if your house ever burns down. Plus, your mortgage lender will require you to have it.
  • Private mortgage insurance (PMI): Remember: You can avoid PMI if your down payment is 20% or more. But if you make a smaller down payment, PMI will add to your monthly payment until you build enough equity to cancel it.
  • Homeowners association (HOA) fees: Basically, HOA fees are for community maintenance and upgrades. If you buy a house in a community that has an HOA, you automatically become a member and will be expected to pay the fee and keep your home up to HOA standards to help increase the overall property value in that community.

Here's a Tip

The 25% guideline is simple math. If your take-home pay is $5,000 a month, keep your total house payment at or below $1,250 ($5,000 x 25%). That leaves room in your budget for everyday life and other big financial goals—so your house stays a blessing, not a burden.

Your Guide to Finding an Affordable Home You Love

Learn our simple, step-by-step process to make closing on the right home for you easier and less stressful.

How Much Are Closing Costs?

Some home sellers cover closing costs to sweeten the deal—but don’t bank on it. According to Ramsey Solutions’ Real Estate Report, the median closing cost for buyers was $7,306 (not including the amount you pay your real estate agent). Closing costs cover items like:

  • Loan origination fee
  • Home inspection
  • Appraisal
  • Prepaid property taxes and mortgage insurance
  • Title insurance
  • Recording fees
  • Underwriting fees

You’ll get a better idea of what your costs will be when you receive a loan estimate from your lender after you apply for your mortgage. Just be aware that these can change before it’s time to close on your home.

You should receive your final closing disclosure form at least three days before closing. Be sure to review it carefully for unexpected cost differences, and ask your lender to explain any charges you don’t understand.

Phase 3: What Else Should You Plan For?

How Much Should You Budget for Moving?

How much you budget for moving depends on how far you’re going and how much you’re hauling—but always set aside a separate pile of cash for it.

Now, getting extra manpower behind your move may be as cheap as a few pizzas to bribe your friends with trucks. But if that won’t cut it for you, or if you’ll be moving a longer distance, putting aside some money for a moving and storage company could be a great idea.

Besides the heavy lifting part of your move, here are other expenses to be ready for:

  • Boxes, bubble wrap and other moving supplies
  • Deposits for utilities
  • Cleaning supplies
  • Appliances that aren’t included in your home purchase
  • Any pre-move-in upgrades like painting, new furniture and closet organization

Get good estimates for what these costs will be—request quotes from moving companies, shop for appliances, and so on. Pad your move-in budget a bit so things go as smoothly as possible, and don’t let new-home excitement cause you to overspend on items you don’t need right away.

 

 

How Long Should You Plan to Stay Put?

Another thing to think about is whether you’re at a place in life where you’re ready to stay in your city for more than a few years. Most of the time, buying a house is a bad idea if you’re not planning to live in it for at least five years.

Why? Because it usually takes at least five years for a home’s value to grow enough to keep you from losing money when you resell it. For example, if you stay in a home for three years and its value only increases by 3% in that time, you probably wouldn’t even make back the money you spent on closing costs if you sold the house.

If you’re in an area where home values have increased rapidly over the last five years and houses for sale don’t spend much time on the market, the math may work out for you to buy instead of rent. But 90% of the time, renting is the better option if you’re not planning to stick around for long.

Do You Have a Real Estate Agent You Can Trust?

It can sometimes be difficult to find a house you love that’s also within your budget, but it’s a whole lot easier when you have a real estate agent on your side. Plus, working with a buyer’s agent brings two other big benefits:

  • Saving money: A buyer’s agent can save you thousands of dollars on your home by fighting for your best interests at the negotiation table.
  • Saving time: Without an agent, you’ll have piles of paperwork to wade through. Life’s too busy for that! Let an expert who knows all of the laws and regulations specific to your city take care of the red tape for you.

Buy or Sell Your Home With Confidence

Not Ready Yet? Here’s Your Plan.

If you’re not financially ready to buy yet, the best move is to keep renting while you aggressively pay off debt and build savings. Renting isn’t throwing money away—it’s buying yourself time to get ready so your home is a blessing instead of a burden.

Here’s the plan: Knock out your consumer debt with the debt snowball, build a full 3–6-month emergency fund, then stack cash for your down payment. Use our EveryDollar budgeting app to give every dollar a job and track your progress toward that down payment goal.

When you’re debt-free with money in the bank and a payment you can cover within 25% of your take-home pay, you’ll be ready to buy—and you’ll buy with confidence instead of crossing your fingers.

 

Next Steps

  • Calculate your monthly house payment limit (take-home pay x 25%).
  • Get preapproved for a mortgage that won’t put you over that 25% limit.
  • Hire a trustworthy real estate agent to house hunt in your budget.

Frequently Asked Questions

No, you should pay off all consumer debt (credit cards, car loans and student loans) before buying a house. That way, you can save a strong down payment faster and have extra margin in your budget when unexpected home repairs come up.

Yes, you can buy a house without a credit score if you’ve been living a debt-free lifestyle. All you have to do is work with a lender that does manual underwriting, where a real person reviews your financial history instead of relying on a credit score. Keep in mind that no credit (living a debt-free lifestyle) is different than low credit (not staying current on your bills). If you have low credit, it will be difficult to buy a house.

Your monthly house payment should never be more than 25% of your take-home pay (including principal, interest, property taxes, home insurance, PMI and HOA fees) to make sure you have room in your budget for other financial goals like retirement savings.

Closing costs are the fees buyers and sellers pay on closing day to third parties who help finalize the home purchase. These costs cover services like loan origination, home inspections, appraisals and title insurance. According to Ramsey Solutions’ Real Estate Report, the median closing cost for buyers was $7,306.

It depends on how much debt and savings you’re starting with, but if you’ve completed up to Baby Step 3, our free guide can show you how to save a big down payment in 12 months. A debt-free buyer with a full emergency fund and a big down payment is the one who can actually afford a home.

Being house poor means so much of your income goes to your house payment that there’s little left for anything else—groceries, utilities, investing for retirement (Baby Step 4), or saving for your kids’ college fund (Baby Step 5). To avoid being house poor, keep your mortgage payment within 25% of your take-home pay on a 15-year fixed-rate conventional loan.

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